Saying Goodbye To Someone
You Love is a compilation of true-life stories about how others have faced end of life and grief. Hundreds of poignant,
touching, loving, humorous personal experiences address readers' concerns and curiosity about how others have faced life's
final chapter with love and dignity.
The narratives complemented interspersed with practical suggestions. Those caring for a loved one
through the last stages of life will find suggestions on how to follow their hearts and their instincts in an endeavor to
say a meaningful goodbye. For those who are grieving, the true-to-life-stories demonstrate how others have navigated
the tidal wave of emotions and reactions that characterize the grief process. For health care professionals and those
who are offering support to others, Saying Goodbye To Someone You Love provides a new perspective on the challenges
of caring for the dying and living with grief. Specific
topics include talking about death, hospice, funerals, grieving, and celebrating life.
Saying
Goodbye To Someone You Love empowers readers by:
- Bringing compassion
and awareness to end of life issues
- Providing examples of loving care at
the moment of death
- Illuminating uncharted territory
- Demonstrating how others cope
- Demystifying
the grief process
- Inspiring
hope
Contents
Introduction; 1. The Elephant in the Room; 2. The Conversation; 3. The
"H" Word...What is Hospice?; 4. Caregiver Challenges; 5. Celebrating Life; 6. Preparing to Say Goodbye; 7. Final
Moments; 8. Funerals; 9. Memorials; 10. Grieving; 11. What About the Children?; 12. Supporting Those Who Grieve; 13. Creating
a New Life; Epilogue; Resources
About the Authors
Norine Dresser is a folklorist and writer. She is the author of Multicultural Manners: New Rules of Etiquette for a Changing Society; Come as You Aren't: Feeling at Home with Multicultural Celebrations and also wrote the eight-year award-winning
Los Angeles Times column, "Multicultural Manners." She has a BA in anthropology and an MA in folklore /
mythology, both from UCLA. She taught for twenty years at California State University Los Angeles, lectures frequently, and
has worked with a variety of government agencies and associations including the New York State Department of Health, Food
Stamp and Nutrition Workers; Methodist Hospital of Southern California; Children's Hospital of Los Angeles; and the American
Dietetic Association. She is an internationally recognized expert on cultural traditions and rituals from around the world.
Fredda Wasserman, MA, MPH, LMFT, CT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified in Thanatology: Death,
Dying and Bereavement. She is a Clinical Director of Adult Programs and Education at OUR HOUSE
Grief Support Center, the leading non-profit grief center in California. She received her Masters degree in Health Education
& Health Administration from the UCLA School of Public Health and her Masters in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University.
Fredda presents workshops and seminars on end of life and grief for therapists, clergy, educators, and medical professionals
at locations throughout the country including the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA and the Keck School of Medicine
at the University of Southern California. Recognized as an expert in guided imagery, Fredda has created a series of guided meditation CDs for relaxation and
stress management and maintains a private psychotherapy practice in Los Angeles.